I’ve written before about some of the barriers that disabled people face when wanting to check on their sexual health. Whether it’s inaccessible buildings, unsupportive care teams or clinics that don’t have hoists, there’s a lot of barriers.
Well, Enhance the UK have paired up with SH:24 to provide 900 FREE test kits to disabled people.
It’s a simple process to sign up, they take some basic information from you and then send you out the kit in the post. Mine arrived in discreet packaging so could be kept private – my carers always open my post for me by default but I’m also very open with them so wasn’t concerned.
Inside mine was a vaginal swab and a blood test. I’m going to say that what you get depends on who you are etc!
I have severe vaginismus so was somewhat concerned about the swab – it has to be inserted 5cm into your vagina for 15 seconds. But, whilst I wouldn’t say it was comfortable, it was fairly managable for me. For people who can’t reach down there themselves, I’d say if you have help putting in a tampon, this will be fine. If you are sexually active, ask your partner to do it if they can.
For the blood test, you get three finger pricks and a small vial to drip your blood into. My body doesn’t like giving blood so I made sure I was hydrated and warm before hand, both things that help with blood flow and hence blood giving.
Top tip: Place your finger in a warm cup of water for a while first to get the blood flowing!
Once you’ve done the tests, you pop them in the provided envelope and send it off.
After three weeks I got a reminder text that asked if I needed any help – I didn’t as I’d actually just sent my tests back but it was a nice, friendly message. I had ended up waiting a while to do my test because I was on my period. They do say you can do the swab whilst you’re on but my periods are so heavy that I didn’t want to.
Three weeks and one day, I got a text saying that my tests had been recieved and would be turned around within 72 hours. A day or so later I got another text saying it was a little delayed. But then, not long after, I got my results by text.
My test had checked for chlamydia, gonorrhoea and syphilis. The first two were negative and the third was unknown as the blood had clotted and the test couldn’t be completed. I was able to text back to request a new blood test kit.
When I signed up, one of the questions was about sexual assault or rape. As someone who has experienced historic sexual assault, I ticked the box. That evening, a few hours after I’d completed the form, I recieved a text with a link to find my nearest Sexual Assault Referral Centre for support. There was also the offer to text back and arrange a time for a phone call.
Throughout the process, I found it easy, friendly and accessible. It was simple and hassle free and felt like I was being supported. I would definitely recommend it.